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Monday, 8 February 2016

a very special Chinese New Year dinner


the streets of Taipei are quiet, and the air still full of last night's firecracker smoke. the city is decked out in red and gold to celebrate. the year of the monkey has begun, Xin Nian Kuai Le!

another expat recently told me that attending a Chinese New Year Eve dinner is as essential to understanding Taiwanese culture as it would be for a visitor to the US to experience Thanksgiving and Christmas. lucky for us, our friend Sharon and her grandparents invited us and a few other friends for dinner this weekend. you may recall her grandmother cooking us a huge Taiwanese feast last year - needless to say we were excited to attend.

[please note that any cultural inaccuracies here are due to my faulty memory or misunderstanding]


while we waited for dinner to be ready and snacked on candy and rice puffs, we discussed the Chinese Zodiac and got a rundown on all the things we should do to prepare for the new year. your house should be cleaned ahead of time, because any sweeping or washing [even laundry] done on New Year's Day could wipe away your good luck. it's also a good idea to put away all your clothes and not leave anything hanging - this ensures the year ahead will go smoothly.

[and yes, when I got home I made sure to tidy up and put away all my laundry.]

other traditions include hanging red and gold signs around the house - the one at the top of this post is the character for "spring." except it is hung upside-down because the word for "upside-down" sounds similar to "arrive." since Chinese New Year is also the Spring Festival, I bet you can guess what that means. [this is sometimes also done with the character for "good luck" in order to help bring fortune.]

red and other bright colors are lucky, whereas you should avoid wearing black and white. white in particular is considered the color of mourning in Taiwan. eating peanuts helps add to your longevity, and consuming sweet things on New Years Day will bring you sweetness throughout the year. one more important food rule: never finish off the last of a dish. leaving food left over means that in the coming year you will always have more than enough.

and with the 12 course meal that grandma cooked for us, that was not a problem!


the lunar new year is celebrated in a lot of asian cultures, though most commonly people call it Chinese New Year. some traditions are the same, and some are different. Sharon's uncle gave us a bit of family history - their ancestors came over from the Fuijan Province of China some 300 years ago and settled along the Tamsui River in Taipei. grandma and grandpa are 6th or 7th generation, so all the food here was very Taiwanese. and obviously, very delicious.

there were vegetarian, pork, and seafood bites - rolled in tofu or sometimes made into balls and fried. a plate full of pork liver and chicken and pig's stomach was balanced out with a serving of fresh vegetables. the braised pork dish with eggs was one of our favorites. I recommend spooning a helping with extra broth over your rice to soak up the goodness. I'm not the only one to endorse this method - as grandpa said when he saw one of us doing it "that's how I know you're Taiwanese!"


there was fried tofu with braised root vegetables, pork knuckle, and vegetables with jellyfish. and another version of one of the dishes we ate on our last visit: buddha jumps over the wall. this dish contains all kinds of ingredients, from taro root to tiny eggs. and earns its name by being so delicious "that even Buddha himself would jump over a wall to eat some."


another large steaming bowl contained fish stew, and somehow I missed getting a photo of the soup with rice noodles. but the chicken with chestnuts was another of my favorites. the nuts soaked up all the flavor and I couldn't hep but keep sneaking a few more onto my plate. I also confess I ate about half the plate of the cucumber salad above. I'm not sure what the clear jelly-like strands were [some kind of root or vegetable] but the dish was crisp and refreshing and... well, really really tasty!

some of the ingredients may have been unfamiliar, but it felt like any other family holiday meal - listen to tales from your grandparent's past, have some beer, laugh a lot, accidentally get into a political conversation with your uncle, eat until you are stuffed. we even had musical performances by both grandma [singing in Chinese along with her iPad] and grandpa [belting out German tunes when we asked about his travels there.] the company was just as good as the food.

and when you think you can't eat another bite or your chair might collapse underneath you - which might have happened to one of us at this dinner - grandma will bring out dessert.


in this case, dessert was a special cake made with rice, traditionally eaten for Chinese New Year and shaped like an opening flower to signify spring. the name of the cake is fa gao, which sounds like fa cai, meaning: to become prosperous. there were also platters of fruit, birthday cake, and possibly my new favorite Taiwanese dessert: nian gao.

nian gao is a cake made from sugar and glutinous rice flour. we ate it cut into small pieces and pan fried, though it can also be baked in the oven. the outside was caramelized and crispy and the inside was warm and gooey. I loved it so much that grandma sent me home with my very own! nian gao is eaten at New Year's because the name sounds similar to "growing taller" and means something like getting a promotion.

I think it was at this point in the evening that grandpa also proved he is smarter than all of us by correctly estimating the population of San Marino - the tiny country in the mountains of Italy which he visited 40 years ago. this feat was more impressive given that we had someone at our table who had spent much of his life living Italy. but, apparently Google and grandpa are always right!


while I certainly don't feel I'm an expert on local culture now, I'm so glad I was able to have this special experience with Chinese New Year Eve in Taiwan.

after dinner and before we left, grandma showed us where she was preparing her offering for the altar in their home: bowls of leftover rice and three sets of carefully stacked oranges. I felt so honored that she would take the time to share this, on top of all the lovely hospitality she had already shown us by opening up her home. being away from family as an expat can be difficult. but having friends and their family be so welcoming makes me want to fling out my arms in a "happy, so happy" kind of gesture.

Happy New Year, friends.
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Wednesday, 23 December 2015

an expat holiday home


say hello to our new Christmas tree. she may not be the most original, but for the first time in my adult life I have a tree that looks like it was decorated by an adult. [or really, IKEA. since that's where all this color coordinated decor came from.] I also love that this tree is "long needle" and did not scratch my hands up terribly while I decorated it.

a few rogue ornaments have slipped in since these photos were taken. a small silver house frame Husband brought back from his work with the Tabitha Foundation NGO in Cambodia. a painted footprint from my nephew. and most recently: Christmas coasters from a German beer hall here in Taipei.


I also hung up some of my favorite instant photos from our travels over the years, and added some tiny ornaments. the couch got a pillow makeover with burgundy and reindeer print - IKEA again.

add some vanilla cookie scented candles [why don't they carry pine tree fragrance anywhere in Taiwan?] and you've got about all the holiday spirit I was capable of this year. sadly I was in a cold medicine haze for about a week and not feeling very jolly. [hopefully since writing this, our time in Singapore has changed that!]


one of my favorite things is buying crazy Taiwanese holiday cards. the translations never quite come out right, but they are always so cute and elaborate I can't resist. this year's theme seemed to be "an army of Santas." I guess that's one theory on how he makes it around to everyone all in one night!

I keep telling myself that one year I'll get around to printing and mailing actual cards to everyone. this year I went so far as to mock something up - one of my favorite photos form earlier this year when we visited New Zealand. so you can go ahead and consider this my holiday card for you:


I hope your holidays are very happy! I'll be back from Singapore with lots to share next week.
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Sunday, 22 November 2015

the expat holiday blues


I think the best indication of how I've been feeling lately is this: it's been over a week since I last posted to instagram.

having visitors is wonderful in a lot of ways. you have the chance to show off your city, and it gives you a great excuse to go out and discover new things. but sometimes having a familiar face around [and then having that face leave] can bring on a wave of homesickness. factor in all the upsetting things going on in the world lately, struggling with my book manuscript, and it being Thanksgiving week - and you've got yourself a case of the expat holiday blues.

it happens every year about this time. somehow it always surprises me. and it always feels like the current year is the worst, and maybe the last year wasn't so bad. [even though you said the same thing last year.] 

this year my coping strategy started with falling off the face of the internet for a while. Husband cheered me up by baking cookies, helping me hang some artwork, and taking me out to buy a new Christmas tree. I'm a pretty strict "not until after Thanksgiving" person, but this year we might make an exception. [if only by a few days.]

I'm also trying to take better care of myself. since there were exactly 30 days until our departure for Singapore, I decided to start the 30 days of yoga videos from Yoga with Adriene. 2 days complete so far, and I've eaten a lot of green things. aside from physical self-care, I'm trying to put less pressure on myself in regards to the book and this blog. I still have so much of New Zealand, and now another mass of recent Taiwan travels... but after completing my series on visiting Taiwan I was feeling a little burned out.

I can't really predict how things are going to be around here for the next few weeks. there's plenty of real-life happenings in the form of friendsgivings and holiday potlucks, cooking classes, hiking dates and happy hours, and probably re-watching all 12 of these holiday movies. there may or may not be a yearly recap post, reader survey, or any of your standard end-of-year blog fare going on.

at the least I wanted to pop in and say hello, I'm still here. and that I hope wherever you are, you're not feeling full of holiday blues. [but if you are - know that you're not alone.] mostly this is just my way of expressing the situation in hopes of moving past it to enjoy my holidays. I know that I will. and I hope that whichever holidays and however you celebrate, you enjoy yours too. 
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Thursday, 8 October 2015

Emei + Beipu // two temples and a cold spring

views of Lion's Head mountain while scooting through the back roads of Hsinchu County, Taiwan

in the mountains outside of Hsinchu, there are dozens of tiny towns just waiting to be discovered. Emei and Beipu had been on my radar while we lived there - along with Neiwan, Lion's Head Mountain, and a dozen other things. but I never went. not once in my 3 years living nearby.

here's how I explain this phenomenon. you move somewhere new. you spend a little bit of time exploring, but most of your time adjusting. [and America to Taiwan was quite the adjustment.] you settle into a routine and then knowing that you plan to stay for a few years, you always think you'll have time to go "later." throw in an element of not feeling like it's the best idea to scoot out in the middle of nowhere alone on a random tuesday, and most of my Hsinchu adventures occurred pretty close to home. [or at least, to the main center of civilization.]

now that I'm belatedly aware of this, and that the move to Taipei didn't require so much of an adjustment, I've been making an effort to get out and explore. it also helps that the mountains are a lot more accessible in Taipei... but we were speaking of Hsinchu.

a colorful temple in Emei, Taiwan
colorful dragons and stone guardians at a temple in Emei, Taiwan
colorful dragons at a temple in Emei, Taiwan
colorful dragons and intricately carved stone columns at a temple in Emei, Taiwan
colorful temple dragons | Emei, Taiwan

a few weeks ago Husband and I went down to visit some friends still teaching at the old school in Hsinchu. we gave up our scooter when we moved, but they fortunately have two. we decided to spend a day having what we like to call a "scoot adventure" and headed off into the mountains.

there were two stops on our itinerary: Emei and Beipu. our friends had driven out to both a few weeks prior, which meant we knew the way and wouldn't have to wander the countryside. [not that getting lost while scooting can't be enjoyable, but we had a time frame here.]

Nature Loving Wonderland and giant Buddha | Emei, Taiwan
giant Buddha at the Nature Loving Wonderland | Emei, Taiwan

Emei wasn't much more than a few empty streets, but boasts a gorgeous temple and a lake. oh, and one really giant Buddha holding a globe outside a place called the Nature Loving Wonderland. we weren't really sure what this place was... temple or hotel, museum or monastery. so I did a little internet investigation and came across their english website:

"The Nature Loving Wonderland is a home for ALL. It is the garden of utmost bliss, a cultural center for spiritual enrichment, a common ground for social interaction and a venue for the exchange of Nature Loving culture in the pursuit of cosmic unification." we didn't realize that all were welcome to unify the cosmos, so we kept driving instead.

city street in Beipu, Taiwan
a colorful temple in Beipu, Taiwan
incense burning at the temple |  Beipu, Taiwan
temple rooflines topped with dragons | Beipu, Taiwan
incense burning at the temple |  Beipu, Taiwan
a thousand tiny Buddha statues displayed on spinning columns | Beipu, Taiwan
intricate carvings and colorful paintings cover the temple's interior and entry | Beipu, Taiwan
swooping temple rooflines, colorful dragons and red lanterns | Beipu, Taiwan
a colorful view from the temple courtyard | Beipu, Taiwan
the temple roof is decorated with colorful dragons and figures | Beipu, Taiwan

our next destination was Beipu. the town center was bustling with activity, streets closed off so pedestrians could wander through market stalls. I purchased myself a six dollar straw hat before we made our way to the main temple.

I always feel a bit strange taking photos in temples. but as I stepped through the door of this one, some guy was completing his prayers and then whipped out his phone for an instagram of the altar. so I snapped away... as respectfully as I could. I have no power to resist the opportunity to photograph thousands of tiny golden buddhas, intricate carvings in wood and stone, and of course dragons.

Beipu Cold Springs | refreshing water flowing through the mountains outside Hsinchu
Beipu Cold Springs | Hsinchu County, Taiwan
Beipu Cold Springs
a bug takes a break at the Beipu Cold Springs, Taiwan
water falling from the Beipu Cold Springs

our final stop was a short scoot outside of town - the Beipu Cold Springs. by this point, the sun was beating down and we were ready for a dip. the water flowing down the river and over the wall was cold and refreshing... though you had to step on a lot of rocks to get in. 

we cooled off, had a snack, and lounged on the rocks for a while before scooting back into town. we ended our day with a shower followed by a visit to the ever-tasty Din Tai Fung.

water falls into a deep pool of blue | Beipu Cold Springs, Taiwan

it was one of those amazing expat days - where you stop and look around in awe that this is where you live. I'm glad that I've moved past the point of needing to adjust, but still haven't lost the wonder of exploring somewhere new. 

do you ever have days like this where you live? expat or not, I hope the answer is yes.

linking up for Travel Tuesday with Bonnie, Lauren and Courtney
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